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GENDERFUL Talks: Interview Series


I just wanted to share a new video/interview series on the YouTube channel for my latest project (GENDERFUL). The first three episodes are up, and I have several more interviews (AND a few solo vlogs) in the works for the coming weeks. So far, my conversations have been with other transmasculine folks, but I’m excited to include a wide spectrum of gender identities and expressions as the project continues…

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today is a good day


I’m afraid I’ve all but abandoned The Butchelor in favor of other pursuits (mostly related to my “second transition“) 😉 I’ve wondered a bit, lately, about the best course of action for this site… The Butchelor currently averages about 100 unique visitors everyday, and I definitely feel there’s some useful information here, for anyone facing similar questions to those I had…

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FYI: Top Surgery Information


I had double-incision mastectomy + free nipple-grafts with Dr. Raphael at the American Institute for Plastic Surgery in Plano, Texas on August, 18 2010, and I really couldn’t be happier with the results. You hear a LOT out in the trans-interwebs about Dr. Garramone in Sunrise, Florida, and his work certainly speaks for itself; he’s clearly a very talented surgeon.…

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an update…


I’ve seriously neglected this blog (and its followers), and for that I sincerely apologize. Lately, I’ve considered archiving this particular blog/URL and migrating over to Tumblr to continue documenting transition/trans* related stuff… (eh, to be determined). At any rate, there’s a LOT of updating I’ve wanted to do over the last several months, but to be honest, I just haven’t…

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“All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another.” ~Anatole France I haven’t blogged in an entire lifetime. No, seriously… SO much has happened, and it’s pretty daunting to even consider catching this blog up on all…

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Daily Coolness: ClosetTransgender’s YouTube Videos


I found this guy’s YouTube channel awhile back and it’s quickly become one of my favorite trans-related subscriptions for a couple of reasons… 1. I think he adds a unique perspective on being trans, and personally his decision to transition without the use of hormones or surgery is one that I definitely considered. I think it’s pretty friggin’ awesome that…

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Daily Coolness: “It was Like I’d Swallowed Rainbows!”


Ha 🙂 I really love this guy, Spencer — I’m very non-confrontational, too and really identified with a lot of his story… I love how he came out to his friends on Facebook, and I especially love the story about coming out to his family. Hmm. Too bad my parents don’t drink… This is from It’s T Time 2010 collab…

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FYI: Binding Tips


My most popular post (by FAR) is 10 reasons that chest binding sucks balls. And with very good reason – the topic of binding is one that is widely searched and researched and discussed among transguys, genderqueers, androgynes, drag kings and all sorts of female-bodied, masculine-identified people. People always want to know how others do it, which binders are best…

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T Update: SIX WEEKS!


Okay, now that I got all of THAT negative, self-doubting crap out of my system 🙂 Here’s my update for six weeks!! I seriously can NOT believe how fast time is passing! It’s exciting (and scary – but I’m done talking about that for the moment) 😛 PHYSICAL CHANGES: • Voice: I still don’t hear much difference in my voice,…

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Personal: Coming Out Woes and WHOAs!


I’m SO sorry that (once again) I kinda fell off the planet… it’s definitely been a stressful few weeks, and I just haven’t found the focus/energy to write — even though I really have wanted to. I guess I’m also a little frustrated with myself for not making more progress on the coming out front. If I take a minute…

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