Personal: “Hey Girl!”

Growing up I knew that I was different from the other kids – even before I knew that words like homosexual, butch, queer or transgender existed. I just knew that I didn’t quite… fit. Now that I’m 34 and not building roads with the boys in the sandbox...

Personal: I wish…

Sometimes I wish I’d just been born male… or female – or “straight”… non-queer… WHATEVER. As long as it was at least, like, 90% “something” and without question. Of course, then I remind myself that SURELY there’s...

Daily Coolness: Dapper Q

DapperQ is for anyone who wants to make any element of men’s fashion truly their own but it’s also for anyone who aspires to deeper levels of personal authenticity. From snazzy, buttoned-up butches and gentlemanly transguys to masculine chic, gender-bending...

Daily Coolness: Tumblriffic!

Tooooot, tooot! Hop on the Tumblr train!! (some of these are nsfw) In this age of Twitter accounts, status updates and instant internet gratification – it makes sense that Tumblogs would be one of the most popular and fastest growing blogging mediums available. In...
Personal:  “Letting Go of ‘Butch'”

Personal: “Letting Go of ‘Butch'”

You know, I really want to document/vent/discuss my experience from the other night, but I’m still struggling with the writing process for whatever reason… It’s like all of my thoughts are stuck inside my head, and I either end up rambling or...